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Boomer

Brooke Hornbeck remembers the day doctors finally gave her an explanation for her son’s delayed development. Two year old Boomer had schizencephaly, a rare disorder where abnormal clefts form in the brain, and cerebral palsy, a neurological impairment which affects balance and mobility.
The prognosis wasn’t good. His life expectancy was between three to five years old, and he would be unable to eat, sit, or walk independently. Various homes and services could help give Boomer the care he needed. But Brooke knew the bleak future would not be their reality.
“I could tell by his eyes that he understood me and he understood things,” she said. “I just decided in my mind I wouldn’t believe it.”

She began to put Boomer’s bottle just beyond his grasp. Maybe, she thought, he would be hungry enough to try to reach for it. When he did, she knew her son would do more than what the various scans and tests were projecting. “I was like, ‘That’s it. I just have to find a way to keep pushing him…. without listening to what someone says is going to happen based on an MRI,’” Brooke recalls.

The real indication of Boomer’s resilience came after his first surgery. Despite being in unbearable pain, he chose to focus on the work. Resting was not an answer: that was time that could be used to get stronger.

That mindset got the attention of then-Florida head coach Urban Meyer. The pair met at a charity event, and Boomer, a die-hard Gators fan, asked Meyer to tell Tim Tebow he said hello.

Meyer’s response?

“Tell him yourself.”

He invited Brooke and Boomer out to a game the following season. At the time, Boomer relied on a wheelchair for mobility, but the five-year-old made a promise before they parted ways. “Coach, next time I see you, you’re going to see me walk,” he said.
Some would have declared the feat impossible. Though he could stand, Boomer had never taken a step. Rather than dwell on odds and likelihoods, Boomer repeated what he had done in the hospital: He went to work.

Four months later, on a warm September afternoon, Tim Tebow wheeled Boomer around the Swamp. He hadn’t seen Meyer yet; the coach was busy preparing for that day’s matchup against Charleston Southern. When they spotted him on the sidelines, they began making their way that direction.

Five feet of grass remained between them when Tebow stopped. Boomer stood, and with Tebow and his mom looking on, walked up to Coach Meyer.

For Brooke, the moment was surreal. “A part of me wanted to throw my arms around Urban or Timmy and say thank you,” she says. “There was no way to say how much I appreciated what they didn’t even know they’ve done for him.”

In the thirteen years since that day, Boomer has undergone 22 more surgeries. These days, he spends much of his time in the gym working to achieve a new goal.
“My vision is walking perfect,” says Boomer. “[That vision] drives me to do everything else… that’s the reason I keep going.”

When he’s not working out, he’s often telling others about his vision at public speaking engagements. The opportunity to encourage others is what makes living with cerebral palsy so special. “I look at [cerebral palsy] as a blessing,” he says. “It’s mentally made [me] who [I am].”

Boomer’s resilience and dedication has carried over to other areas of his life. He’ll be a freshman at Florida Gulf Coast in the fall, where he plans to earn a degree in sports management. He already knows what he wants to do after graduation. “I love sports, I love helping people— combine them… and you get a sports agent,” he says.
Boomer may not be a sports agent yet, but he’s already making a difference in the lives of those around him. Brooke says his unwavering selflessness has made her realize what truly matters. She says, “He’s taught me that taking the time to lift up those around you… is what’s important in life.”

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Urban Meyer’s Legacy Through My Eyes

Absentmindedly, I opened Twitter the morning of December 4th, 2018 and began scrolling. One piece of news caught my eye:

“Ohio State head coach Urban Meyer is retiring from coaching following their Rose Bowl matchup against Washington January 1st.”

I was shocked. I’d read reports which speculated that would happen, but after Ohio State finished sixth in the final College Football Playoff Rankings, I thought for sure he would give it one more go, coaching one final season with the Buckeyes in 2019 in an attempt to win it all, one more time.

Urban Meyer has been a part of college football ever since I’ve been watching it. He was the first coach I watched lead my beloved Florida Gators, and the teams he put on the field helped create my dream of coming to school here. Year in and year out, we were successful, winning countless games and consistently performing at the highest level. Our players were constantly winning awards and achieving other prestigious accolades. Even as an eight year old, I knew I wanted to be that way, too.

“Well, how do you think he does it?” my dad asked. “He’s successful because he works hard and he pushes the team to be the best they can be, every day.”

Knowing I looked up to him, my dad began using Coach Meyer as a source of motivation as I went through physical therapy and the other daily challenges cerebral palsy brings. “Robyn, if one of Florida’s players put in that kind of effort, do you think Coach Meyer would put him on the field?” he would ask. If the answer was no, then I knew I needed to work harder.

The first season without him as our head coach was just… weird to me. Urban Meyer as head coach of the Florida Gators was all I’d ever known, and it took me a while to grasp the idea of someone else being in charge. Growing up, I thought winning national championships every other year was just a thing teams did. I soon learned that was not the case, and I realized that what he had done in Gainesville was special. When I met him a couple years later, I found out that Urban Meyer himself is beyond special. He’s one of those people you meet and never forget about, no matter how many others’ paths you cross.

For my fifteenth birthday, one of my friends surprised me with tickets to the Tim Tebow Foundation’s Celebrity Golf Classic. Held annually, it’s a fundraiser where Tim and his friends take on the course of TPC Sawgrass, and all of the funds raised go towards supporting the foundation’s outreach initiatives. Most of the celebrities I met that day took a picture and kept going, but not Coach Meyer. No, he walked up and wrapped me in a bear hug, going on to compliment the Gator stickers I wore on my leg braces and taking time out of his day to talk with us. It was evident to me within moments that he is a father before anything else, and I believe his success can in part be attributed to that. In believing in his players and treating them like they’re his own, Coach Meyer enables them to believe in themselves, which in turn allows them to reach heights they never thought they could.

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I’ve gone to the golf tournament every year since, and one of the highlights every year is seeing Coach Meyer. He’s so much more than a lot of people think he is. He’s funny, for one thing. “Haven’t you ever heard of sunscreen?” he asked one year, when I was burnt to a crisp. And I learned the hard way not to say the name of Ohio State’s rival. After hearing me say it twice, he had had enough. “You say that word again, you’re doing push ups,” he said, serious as could be. “They are the Team Up North.” To this day, I call the team that shall not be named The Team Up North, and correct anyone who does otherwise.

He’s also extremely kind and caring. I had surgery in November of 2017 and spent three weeks in the hospital. When Coach Meyer found out where I was, he picked up the phone and called me, just to find out what was going on and make sure I was alright. I was so excited that my heart rate sky rocketed, topping off at 167 and making the nurses think something was wrong. On the contrary, that phone call gave me more joy than I’d had since my hospital stay began six days earlier. It was classic Coach Meyer. He cracked a few jokes– according to him, my dad is nuts and my mom is the “more normal” of the two of my parents– but most of all, he showed me love. When I answered his call, the first thing I noticed was how concerned he sounded– like a worried father checking on his child. But what stuck with me the most was what he said at the very end: “Send me a text every couple of days and keep me updated. I love you. I’ll be thinking about you.”

So I did. Once a week, I’d send him a quick text and let him know how I was feeling and what was happening in my world. And he texted me back, every single time. Always, he encouraged me. “You’re awesome! Keep swinging and you will prove her wrong!” he said, when I told him a therapist had said I would be confined to a wheelchair for a few months. And sometimes, he teased me. “Send me your address- need to get you some Buckeye gear! See the Gator stuff!” he responded, after I was wearing a Florida shirt in a video I sent him. I texted him my address, and sure enough, a package showed up on my porch not long after that. It was filled with Ohio State gear and a copy of his book, Above the Line, written about the principles behind how he motivates his players.

What is Urban Meyer’s legacy? A lot will be made of that question in the coming months, but to me, the answer is simple: love. His legacy is one of love. Love of college football, love of his players, love of his family, and love for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Through that love, he made a difference and cemented himself in the history books, as a man who pushed himself to the limit and changed the lives of thousands in the process.

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❤The Liebster Award❤

Following Him Beside Still Waters nominated me for the Liebster Award- thank you so much!! ❤ I’m honored. “Liebster” is now one of my favorite words- it means “favorite one” or “adorable one” in German. 😊

The rules for this award are:

• Thank the nominator

• Answer the Questions below

• Nominate others

Here are my responses to the questions:

1. If you could be any animal in life, what would you be and why?

A dog, because they love unconditionally, they’re always happy to see you, they’re protective, and they’re comforting. 2. If you could write the soundtrack to your life, what would be the first three songs?

3. If your death was imminent, what would you choose as your last meal?

Chicken wings!! I love them. 😊 But more because there’s a wing place here that we go to once a week, and everyone there is incredibly kind.

4. What movie that has not yet been made would you pay good money to see?

Carve the Mark by Veronica Roth!! I LOVE the book-it’s better than Divergent, in my mind- and I’d love to see it portrayed on a screen.

5. What was your favorite age to be and why?

Fifteen! It was a year filled with joy and unforgettable experiences, but I also learned a lot and grew in my faith.

6. What is the one book that has most inspired your life?

The Bible. It’s what I turn to when I need comfort, guidance, and wisdom, and I always learn something new from it.

7. If you could live anywhere you please, without that pesky restraint called money, where would it be and why?

Gainesville, Florida. There’s something about that town that makes me feel alive, and I love it. I love the electric atmosphere, I love how kind everyone there is, and I love the passion everyone has for the orange and blue. 🔸💙🐊

I nominate:

Mama at Mama’s Empty Nest
K Marie at Lines of Lazarus

Hayley at Red Letters

JA Patterson

Alyssa at Tree Planted by the Living Water

If you could write the soundtrack to your life, what would be the first three songs?

What is the one book that has most inspired your life?

If you could live anywhere you please, without that pesky restraint called money, where would it be and why?

Where would you go on your dream vacation?

What’s your favorite thing about fall?

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Question For You

First of all, thank you to everyone who has read, liked, and commented on my posts! And if you have followed my blog, thank you! It means so much to me that you all read my posts!

Starting Monday, I’m going to start posting a Bible verse of the week instead of posting one every day. I feel like I’m blowing up your inbox, and that’s the last thing I want to do!

My question is, What kind of posts do you want to see more of? I’m trying to grow my blog and iron out a few kinks, so I wanted to get feedback from you!

Thank you so much! You are amazing!

-Robyn 😊